Teen Drivers

Parents, you can steer them to safety with these helpful tips:

(Article by Dr. Tedd Mitchell - USA Weekend August 24-26, 2007)

Distracted young drivers, including those with ADHD can post dangers on the road. Many sates have responded to this problem by implementing graduated driver licensing. The idea of these programs is based on some of the same principles used to help those with ADHD, namely organization and focus. Kids, in general, and ADHD children, in particular, can have difficulty seeing the consequences of their actions. As they age, this will improve; until then, it's up to us adults to help them help themselves. The following guidelines, designed to aid parents who have children with ADHD, apply to any teen driver:

Communicate. Be clear with your kids about rules and expectations. For my teen daughter, I've come up with the four S's--seat belts, speed, sight, and sound:

The four S's for young drivers:

Seat belts: Everybody wears one.

Speed: Keep to the posted limits.

Sight: Eyes on the road, not on distractions in the car.

Sound: Deal with anything that makes a sound only when off the road and stopped. No calls, text messages, or changing CDs while moving in traffic.

Negotiate. Spend time explaining your rationale for a rule. Listen to your teen's concerns. Try to find common ground when establishing boundaries.

Compromise. Monitor progress. Over time, be prepared to reassess and renegotiate the terms of the rules.

Parents can establish rules set expectations and give feedback to help their kids develop habits that will improve their ability to make good decisions.